Rejection and the feeling of inadequacy is often the worst fear that a man has when he approaches a woman. I certainly did when I first did it so trust me, youâ re not alone on this one.
Usually all these stupid thoughts come into your mind as youâ re thinking of approaching the women that youâ ve been attracted to.
Questions like;
â What if sheâ s not attracted to me, and brushes me offâ
â I wonder if she has a boyfriend and he is aroundâ
Blah, blah, blah.
From years of practical experience I have come to the realization that no one strategy works for all women because they are all slightly different and are in different circumstances.
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Some just plainly have no interest in men, some are already in a happy committed relationship, some are single but just arenâ t ready because they have just broken up with their last guy.
So, rather than take things personally and start questioning yourself in regards to your own adequacy and so on, realize the fact that in order to succeed in meeting attractive women, you have to just go for it even when the majority WILL turn you away NOT because of you but because of their current circumstances. Just move onto the next when his happens. There is no need to feel bad at all.
Along the way, I also noticed the following which had helped me in my quest to attract my perfect women.
Women are use to being approached, flirted with, and picked up. They thrive on this. So the next time you decide to approach a woman, just remember that this is not something new to her and you are unlikely the first one to ever do so to her and thus she would be shocked and turn you away immediately. In fact, she will often find it flattering that youâ ve even approached her and she will feel good about it even though you may be a nervous wreck at this point in time. So just go with the flow. It will surprise you.
Realize that if you are turned away because she is not interested, it is more than likely that it is her circumstances of not being interested in anyone right now. It maybe that she may not be interested in you, but fact is, you gave it a shot and you can then move on rather than look back in hindsight wondering, what it would have been if justâ Śâ Ś.Get the picture?
In the mean time, Good Luck!
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